Most people know I only blog for two reasons. The first is money, if I am commissioned to write, I write. The second is if something is troubling me.
So, what would you do if you suspect someone who professes to care about you has told you a lie. And by a lie, I don't mean a little white lie either. How do I know it is a lie? I don't. In Second Life it is nigh on impossible to tell who is lying and who is truth telling. If the story changes, that is the first indicator that would trigger alarm bells. What if I confronted that person and told them to admit they had lied and told them to tell me the truth but they reacted by telling me it is none of my business. Is that an admission of guilt? An admission that they have lied, and not only that but I have no right to know the truth.
I guess that means if they don't step up and tell the truth, in order to fix it, it's over. It's a miserable damned if you do, damned if you don't scenario. Not to mention the disrespect shown by lying in the first place.
Can I move past it without this person stepping forward to fix it? No.
Thursday, 9 September 2010
Tuesday, 7 September 2010
No Limits?
Having been clearly trying to resolve my residual issues from my Virtual Integrity? (www.clubjosephina.com ---> Blog) post I decided to resurrect this blog. I am not going to discuss what the outcome of that post was but it has got me thinking about how easy it is to plod along in Second Life oblivious to what is really going on. Before you know it your game has changed and in my case, my too little came too late.
This raises the inevitable question, have I softened my anti dating policy and does this mean that as the only guy I could consider dating is off the market I should start dating? Clearly, I am not going to wait around like some sad little thing in the corner begging for crumbs so now it is up to me to decide if I want to hop back in the saddle and broaden my horizons.
I am learning my limits. Someone needs to tell me the rules because no one gave me the rulebook.
This raises the inevitable question, have I softened my anti dating policy and does this mean that as the only guy I could consider dating is off the market I should start dating? Clearly, I am not going to wait around like some sad little thing in the corner begging for crumbs so now it is up to me to decide if I want to hop back in the saddle and broaden my horizons.
I am learning my limits. Someone needs to tell me the rules because no one gave me the rulebook.
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